So once before I lost a friend because of something her boyfriend kept saying about me, calling me names and talking trash. She was my best friend for 8 years, and wouldnt even stand up for me. She took his side. I couldnt continue on having a friend like that so we stopped all communication. :( This time the friend is actually standing up for me, but mentioned she wouldn't lose another friend over a guy. I don't want her to break up with her boyfriend by any means, but I am glad that she stood up for me. A while back a member of my family's boyfriend trash talked my marriage on facebook, nothing good resulted from that either.
What I don't understand is, why do so many people say hurtful things when I know my husband would never talk about my friends that way. Do people not understand that words do indeed hurt people? I would be livid if DJ talked about my friends the way some of my friends bf's have talked about me. Even DJ's family talks bad about me, which I have come to the conclusion they are just jealous but I still am a person and have feelings that can be hurt sometimes...
Maybe I will realize one day why people have to be so darn mean. :(
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I love you Mindy!! Its just upsetting to me because this all could've been avoided soooo easily. Ughhhhh. Keep the peace people. I got your back :-) Chicks before... well you know Lol
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